What is Pastoral Care in Church?
Pastoral care in a church setting centres on providing heart-centred support, empathy, and a listening ear within a community context, often over an extended period. It involves sitting with someone and walking alongside them without necessarily having to fix their problems.
Here's what pastoral care in a church entails:
Core Principles Applied in a Church
The fundamental skills of pastoral care, such as empathy, care, kindness, and active listening, remain consistent across various contexts, including churches. The primary difference in a church setting, compared to, for example, a hospital, is the length of engagement. In churches, it's typically a much slower burn, offering the privilege of years with the same person to help them mature and build rapport over time. This longer-term relationship makes church pastoral care "easier" in some ways, as there is more time to build trust and see change.
Providers of Pastoral Care in a Church
While a good pastor, even a senior pastor, should embody pastoral skills and possess a "pastoral heart", the Bible's qualifications for eldership indicate that church leaders should be adept at "soft skills". However, for a church community to grow and scale, it is considered important for pastors to train lay people in how to provide pastoral care. This fosters a more horizontal model of care, moving away from relying solely on the senior pastor.
Structure and Accessibility
In Australia, there's a shift towards a more horizontal picture of care within churches, often facilitated through Bible study groups. The Bible study leader acts as a "mini shepherd" for their small group, serving as the first point of pastoral care. This decentralised approach helps manage the high demand for care, which can otherwise lead to pastor burnout due to their limited hours in a week. If a situation is particularly intense, it may be referred up to a senior pastor or to external organisations like Life to the Full.
Integration of Faith and Spirituality
Pastoral care in a church context integrates spiritual disciplines, such as prayer and the use of scripture, if the individual desires it. It aims to help individuals explore their "functional beliefs about God" and the world, rather than just what they feel they "should" believe. This process taps into paradigms like identity (who you are) and the character of God (e.g., a loving Heavenly Father versus a tyrant). It helps individuals understand their suffering within a redemptive story and find hope, believing that God is good.
Comparison to Aged Care
Pastoral care in aged care facilities shares similarities with church pastoral care, as it also allows for longer engagement and community support, sometimes even within chapels located inside the facilities. This contrasts with the typically briefer and more intense engagement found in hospital chaplaincy.
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